A lie in a trusted relations

Most hurtful is a deceitful act of lie especially if you have great deal of expectation from that person.

We all care for someone special in our life and we expect the same in return.
Most important to us in early life are parent and friends. Later part in life is our partner, children and friends.

If any of above lie to us which is intentional and hidden for a while and when it is exposed then that is the end of our expectations from that relation. The relation may continue but that will be excluded from our entrusted relationship's list.

But on other hand it hurts the most and as long as this resentment is there neither we will forget the person nor forgive the person.

If we forgive somehow, relation will start healing again and may enter into list of our entrusted group.

But there are couple things that needed to be addressed here apart from past life memories which are of least interest to me.

Firstly are we fair in our expectations and if we are then may be that lie was circumstantial and may have a reason behind it with a feeling that the truth may hurt us.

Regardless of any rationale lie is a lie and no one can let it go without repercussions.

If we let it go then it means we have extraordinary strength and courage to forgive the person and this virtue is a divine virtue.

If we can not let it go, it means our expectations have been shattered and causes a long lasting resentment in our mind.

Just imagine if one of your entrusted person lie to you and you never bothered about it and you continue your trusted relation as if nothing happened. That shows it that you never expected anything anyway.

Moreover none of relations in this world are based on 100% truth. But if you feel that it is not true then most likely no-one will be in your entrusted relationship's list at the end.

Either a complete truthful person could be the one in your list but unfortunately no-one of such caliber exist on this earth except God.

So if you are completely truthful and expect the same in return, then only choice you have is to make God as your friend.

It is a separate issue that God may accept your friendship without you being completely truthful . Because He has ability to forgive those who even attempt to friends with Him.

So all worldly relations are based on trust on each other and being human we are ought to make mistakes and we ought to hide it simply to avoid the embarrassment or not to hurt the feelings of the person. But if the person knows that his/her partner has the ability to forgive or let it go then there is no reason for the person to hide his/her mistakes.

SEP 11-911 and 1984

What is similar between 911 and 1984.
Who was behind 911?
Who was behind assassination of Indira Gandhi?

Who plotted Operation Blue Star?

911

1984

Learning versus Practice

I was just thinking about pros and cons about this subject. While I was trying to make some logical sense of it----it came to my mind that one may reasonably comprehend different religious beliefs and modern philosophy of psychology and the scientific laws and rules of Universe, life and matter which I like to define as #Mind-#Matter-#Motion (3M) and at the end it really does not matter how much, how far and how deep we know about it, the end result depends upon how do we control our emotions and desires to run our Vehicle of Life at right speed and yet have enough control during normal and emergency situations of life without falling pray to bad attitude and behaviour, addictions, wrong practices, immoral acts  religious or spiritual learning and practices which might be detrimental to our human psychology. Learning on one end is essential to get rid of guilt feelings of sins defined by various religions and spirituality groups. and to lead a life of freedom without being irresponsible and on other end life is so precious gift of The Creator of Creation which is full of love, beauty, softness, fragrance, music and happiness that spending too time to learn and understand life and God without enjoying and sharing every moment is worthless.

Bollywood 2004 Review by Satnam Singh BC: Veer-Zaara One of Best Movie in 2004 Bollywood

Destiny of poor is to work to support family. Destiny of people, success or struggle is dependent on education, good or bad choices & luck! Destiny of woman is no different!

Veer-Zaara One of Best Movie in 2004 Bollywood

Awesome movie! I really enjoyed the movie theme. A love which is rare to find and story so simple yet  impressive and touching.

It has strong message for man kind and the true love where both sacrificed each other's 22 years of life without any regret and to live rest of life for each other.

In the end it is simply a beautiful movie. Teaches such a great lesson of humanity: Breaking Barriers of Nationality and Religions through True Love.

Excellent job by director Yash Chopra and story writer Aditya Chopra other than  film stars Shah Rukh Khan, Preity Zinta, Rani Mukerji, Anupam Kher, Amitabh Bachchan and Hema Malini. All crew members, actors and directors deserve to be praised.

Seniors or Citizens attacks in Surrey have become a norm

Destiny of poor is to work for money to support family. Destiny of people, success or struggle is dependent on education, good or bad choices & luck! Destiny of woman is no different!

Late Honorable Chuck Cadman, M.P.

Senior has been attacked in Surrey's Newton Athletic Park

It does not seems a big deal in Surrey because Governments do not have heart and drive to bring changes. Seniors or Citizens attacks in Surrey have become a norm.

Credit goes to our mayor, Ms. Dianne Watts who insisted on to keep expensive RCMP police force in Surrey, which is totally short staffed. Our property taxes and utility bills have almost doubled since I bought house in 2002. Surrey is a complete mess where criminals know that they can easily get away with crimes. People have lost hope and confidence in RCMP force, local and BC Government. Late Honorable Chuck Cadman, who was one of the local conservative MP and later won independent, who lost his young son and tried his best throughout his life to lobby for controlling the crime in Surrey without much success. I can feel how hard it is to lose a young son. But this continues and our police is good at making extensive investigations without much success and speculating the motives behind such incidents and even murders. I left India in 1990 because there was no guarantee of safety from government and police but it was not this bad as Surrey. Surrey has turned into nightmare for residents safety. Only thing our Surrey government is good at is making Drug Crime Task Forces and blaming different communities for the crimes. Surrey can not afford more taxes and can not afford such criminal atmosphere. Only possibility left behind is firing RCMPs and hiring local police which could be more effective and sensitive to security concerns of residents. It is only possible if our Hon. Mayor let go her arrogance and make rational decisions.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chuck_Cadman

EASY IS TO BE GANDHI BHAGAT

The-Destiny-of-Poor! Destiny-of-Woman! Destiny-of-People!

EASIEST IS TO BE GANDHI BHAGAT

EASIEST THING IS TO DO IS NOTHING

HARDEST THING IS TO DO EVERYTHING

EASY IS TO SAY I KNOW

HARD IS TO LEARN

EASY IS TO QUIT

HARD IS TO STICK

EASY IS TO CRITICIZE

HARD IS TO ACCEPT

EASY IS TO FAIL

HARD IS TO FORGET

EASY IS TO PLAN

HARD IS TO FOLLOW

EASY IS TO HATE

HARD IS TO TOLERATE

EASY IS TO BE LATE

HARD IS TO BE WAIT

EASY IS TO BE IDEAL

HARD IS TO DEAL

EASY IS TO BEAR SLAVERY

HARD IS TO CLEAR SLAVERY

EASY IS TO BOW

HARD IS TO NO

EASY IS TO BE GANDHI BHAGAT

HARD IS TO BE SHAHEED BHAGAT

EASY IS TO ENJOY

HARD IS TO SACRIFICE

EASY IS TO PRETEND

HARD IS TO DEFEND

EASY IS TO FEEL

HARD IS TO ZEAL

MODERATION MEANS MIXING TRUTH AND FALSE TOGETHER

DREAMING FREEDOM WITHOUT HARDSHIP IS A SIN

SATNAM SINGH SIDHU BC

All of us are competitive in nature in good and bad ways! Which one you likes?

The-Destiny-of-Poor! Destiny-of-Woman! Destiny-of-People!

All of us are competitive in nature in good and bad ways! Which one you likes?

Competition is one of the healthiest trait in human beings to succeed which prevent us from becoming unemployed and beggar which no one likes. 

But keep in mind that sometimes our sense of competition make us drag the deserving person behind us and that is not healthy because it is the other side of ugly face of competition that induce greed, jealousy, frustration, anger, hatred in ourselves to hurt others on one hand and induce negative energy in our body like eddy current in conductors to make us further slow and sick.

So compete with best of your energy by focusing on destination and not the competitor. You may be slower than some but you never know it because you never acknowledged them except your target.

A little funny joke: Since tortoise never looked at his competitor and competed with best of its energy! Tortoise was the winner and not its competitor which is more than 100 x faster than it.