There are two types of poor: finance wise and destiny wise. Financially poor are known to everyone. Destiny poor are not that predictable as financial poor.
Destiny has three variables which must coincide for either good or bad. The time, the position and the circumstance. The most important is the subject. In this case I am talking about human being. Human being as a son, daughter, mother, father, siblings. Destiny is used for day to day human being conditions. In some cases it is possible to use destiny when we see some one with chronic disease condition which makes human being desperate, miserable and helpless in hand of destiny. The other state of human being being miserable, desperate, helpless and unbearable is when human being lose his/her loved one in successive or single shot.
I am talking about a recent incident that happened in Panchkula in which seven people lost their lives unnecessarily and unknowingly. All seven had a common place to get together for few moments not to celebrate or get to know each other but to help a neighbor in distress.
In this incidence there is a story about two brothers who lost their mother about 10-12 years ago. Their father brought them up as a single parent. He gave his both sons a good education and both got graduated with engineering degrees. One of them was working as an engineer in southern part of India. Elder was about 24 and younger was about 22 years in age. Both were unmarried.
Coming back to earlier point about three variables that are required for destiny to show its power in good or bad way: the time, the place, the circumstances.
It was an occasion of Diwali family union. Both sons and father were celebrating an auspicious occasion of Diwali. Perhaps friends in neighborhood were also happy to see their distant friend who was simply there to celebrate Diwali.
So the destiny chose a place next to their house. A horrible incident was about to happen and all the subjects were getting close to the same spot. There was still some time left before it happens. More subjects were required by the destiny. The neighbor's house. The time selected by destiny was time of Diwali celebration. The circumstances chose by destiny was a sudden fire in the neighborhood.
The subjects were two brothers, the next door landlord and four other neighbors. All seven rushed to the next door landlord's house which was on fire. The firefighters were on their way but couldn't make it due to unruly parking of vehicles in the neighborhood.
When they reached the spot of their destiny they saw smoke coming out of room. One of them opened the door and next moment was end of their lives. Some died right away and some succumbed to injuries in the various hospitals from skin burn. Within a week seven of them destined to leave their families for ever due to a single reason. The reason to help the next door landlord to control the fire.
No one of them knew about their next moment destiny. All were simply trying to help the neighbor who was in desperate need of help.
It is matter of common sense that no one should have opened the door through which smoke was coming out.
Why? Why? I am saying so. Recently I was having a lunch break at Healing Hospital Chandigarh and thinking about the incidence. There is nothing one could do to change the destiny of seven but sharing a piece of knowledge is necessary so that such incidents could be avoided those who are aware of it.
Fire and smoke are two integral part of each other. Smoke is result of poor fire conditions essentially lack of oxygen is the biggest. As a matter of fact when there is a small fire in an enclosed room, excessive fire turns into smoke due to lack of oxygen. Oxygen is a fire agent. Carbon dioxide is a smoke agent.
So if a room keeps filled with smoke, it means that source of fire is lacking oxygen to burn properly. As long as the room is closed the fire keep turning into smoke. If due to any reason the door or window is opened, there would be a sudden flames of fire and less smoke. The reason being the fire source now has got opening to outside fresh air which is full of oxygen. The smoke will turn into fire in no time. It is like a bomb with sudden explosion. The outside air has enough oxygen to fuel the fire and assist the cause of fire.
So fire behaves differently in open and closed conditions. Fire in open is not dangerous because it does not ends up in explosion. Open fire is more a spontaneous process whereas closed door fire is very explosive in nature especially if there is a gas cylinder or other source of fuel.
In the fatal incident two things happened. First the burned room interior was turning into smoke due to lack of oxygen. Second the losely connected gas cylinder turned into explosion. Firefighters knows how to handle such situations. There never open doors in such way. Especially if they know there is explosive gas inside the room.
In nut shell all I want to say is that had those seven known to the behaviour of fire they would have never opened the door as such. They must have waited for the fire brigade and helped to keep everyone away from fire zone.
So when ever you witness a fire in a house or building try to escape the building without opening the door of such room or apartment which is on fire. Because once you open the door you help the fire to get enough oxygen to burn into flames which spreads like flood water in every direction. Moreover the heat generated from fire causes high temperatures in which people can breath or withstand high temperature.
Also the high temperature burns down the building structure very quickly and people might not get chance to come out safely. Because high temperture damages the building structure which results in collapsing of building to ground zero.
The incident of 911 in New York of the ill-fated Twin Tower Buildings was a similar incident in which the fuel from planes caught fire and melted the building structure. Had those planes were empty of fuel such disaster could have been avoided. But once something happens due to negligence or deliberate act it is too late to reverse it. Because any incident is avoidable during planning stage but once time is up then there is no remedy unless we take precaution.
So ACTIONS happen in real time or Present or Now and PLANS help to avoid bad happenings. PLANS are powerful thing because it is not for NOW but for future ACTIONS, EVENTS, INCIDENTS, O and Unfortunes.
The destiny of poor is hard to change unless poor changes own destiny before time , location and cause get together at same spot. So PLAN your life daily while taking ACTIONS to survive the day and to be productive of the day.
PLANS without action are no plans and without PLANS there are no organized ACTIONS.
So always make ACTION PLAN rather than simply a plan which you may never dare to apply.
APPLICATION of PLAN is fruitful just like APPLiCaTION of SCIENCE is fruitful in terms of engineering and medicine.
Design your own destiny by PLANNING your future while simultaneously taking AcTIONS on PAST PLANS.
An UNPLANNED person is a like a leave of a tree which grows and goes to gutter without any utilization.
Don't gutter your time. Time is precious of all. Time is life. Life is time. So don't waste it.
Don't act as destiny of poor. Design your destiny by planning for today and tomorrow. Those who live in today's day tight compartment may lead a wonderful life by luck and not by destiny. You may not be able to change your luck but definitely you can change your destiny. Destiny is in your hands. If not all aspects of it in your hands but at least time is in your hands and planning is in your hands.
So never fail to plan because :
Successful and happy people never fail to plan whereas failures and miserable complainants always fail to plan because they reply on their luck.
Let me tell you the secret of nature . Nature has planned everything even birth of a leaf and it's sad demise straight to gutter without utilization as we think. If Sun, Moon, Planets, Life cycle, nature, environment has a planned time and routes then why we fail to plan.
Failing to plan means someone else on this earth will plan for you. Nobody likes others to plan for them. That is why staff never like their bosses becUse bosses plan their work time but thank God not their personal time, free time, family time or social time.
But if you have no plan for your free time then at least plan a boss for your free time. God bless you.
