Learn how to be polite to others and how to smile and remain calm to criticism from others....Let's try it together

Learn how to be polite to others and how to smile and remain calm to criticism from others....Let's try it together and lets start on putting smiles back on those who have lost  hope, happiness and interest in life. Modern life is full of Bills, if not income. Everyone dreams about better days but getting there is not easy.

We always dreamed to be somebody one day after school or college but end up nobody. Every one likes to get peace of mind but pieces of mind are so such occupied in different pursuits of life that it can never be put together in one piece. Always thought about the dream partner but never dreamed about the partner we got..just kidding

Why life takes us to a direction which we don't like and why we can not go in a direction that what we like...But what direction is that what we like! As we go close to the end of our journey, things once very dear to us starts disappearing and dreams starts to fade.

Most give up and agrees to rest in peace forever, some continue to fight. If I do so much for my partner why I do not get the same in return! I thought you are always on my side, then why we are so apart from each other! Why I have been betrayed by someone whom I always trusted! Why people don't like me. Even my children and my partner! Why people don't understand me what I want! Why people don't agree with me! 

Why do they put me into pieces! My mind is everywhere and my heart is nowhere! What should I do? Where should I go?

You know what, that is destiny and If that is what going to happen anyway, then why should I care. Why should I be scared or broken? Why should run after those who want to go away from me? What is coming close to me is the reality of life. I may be losing trust in relations but I may be gaining real wisdom, wisdom of life...

But how about this, if nobody cares about me, I simply do not care! All I am going to do is to care about everyone. I know nobody trust me, but I am going to truth them. Nobody agrees with me but I am going to agree with them. Simply because life is once and I am going to give another try for my sake. I deserve happiness and peace. I am going to acquire it by making others smile regardless what they did to me.. they ignored me, dishearten me, disagreed with me, did not care about me.

But I am going to do it because I like it and I am doing for me. I am simply going to ignore their negative behavior towards me.I am doing it because I found the real treasure of richness in my heart. I AM DOING IT BECAUSE I REALIZED THAT I AM STRONG AND RICH AND I WANT TO HELP OTHER REALIZE THE SAME. 

I AM DOING IT TO HELP THEM AND HOPE WHEN I WILL FINISH MY JOURNEY ONE DAY THEY WILL SMILE AT ME AND SAY GOOD BYE TO ME AND START HELPING OTHERS TO REALIZE THE SAME.

I MAY LOOK ALONE TO OTHERS, WITHOUT HELP, WITHOUT SUPPORT, WITHOUT COMPANION BUT I AM NOT REALLY ALONE! BECAUSE I KNOW HOW TO TALK TO MYSELF, WHEN I AM DOING NOTHING FOR OTHERS OR FOR MYSELF.

I AM NOW FRIENDS WITH MYSELF.

After all I changed my thinking and my whole world has changed. I am happy, I am sharing, I am caring regardless of what others do to me. I am in peace with me. I am rich and content. I am at peace and all pieces of mind are sitting around me and listening to me with full interest. They are waiting for me to give them some job of sharing and caring. My heart is so content and calm that my heart and my head sits together and laugh together and jokes about the past. They both are friends now. They both are my companions and my friends. My heart is full of hope and my head is willing to pursue. forever..forever..forever

Destiny?

Destiny...
What exactly it is?

Is it something to accept once some incident already happened with us!
or it is something we can change before  it happens!

Since we can not see our future until it changes into present there is no real yardstick to measure
it, to analyse it or to compare it with predictions!

Some says it was destined to happen and nobody can change! Of course anything that already happened
is a thing of past, may be by a fraction of second. But that becomes historical which could be measured
and recorded with evidence for future reference.

Some says I can change my destiny! Now future is something we can predict or anticipate but not for sure!
So if someone says I can change my destiny! Really he/she is setting some goals and work hard to achieve
it. May be a resolution for the new year or changing career from employment to business. Really we are talking about a change in condition from one point of time to another. In other words we are talking about what we are today and what we would like to be tomorrow. We might overachieve or underachieve at that future date.

But destiny is what really going to happen to someone regardless of his/her plans to change or remain
same. Destiny is unchangeable because it is net result of all changes, adjustments and achievements of the life.